Katir, 53

I am becoming a more spiritually aware person each and every day.

To receive love, it must be freely given. To receive a healthy, happy, and deeper love, it must be unconditionally given.

I make myself happy. I don't need another to do that for me. I simply want to love, and to share the love that only I am able to give, because it's from my heart and from my heart alone.

A wise woman knows that a lack of love in her life is not remedied in the arms of any man. It comes completely from within. Once she looks for another to fill that need, she simply finds more lack of love in her life... and so, in thinking the fault lies in the man for not being able to give her what she needs, she finds another... true and lasting happiness eludes her.

The answer lies in her, deep within in her own heart, as it is with all of us.

The qualities that I am attracted to in a woman are subtle: As I see her holding up two pairs of shoes to a dress she wants to wear. As I notice when she is nurturing to an animal, or in comforting a small child. Or as she stops for a moment to smell a flower. It is in simply being herself that she attracts me.

It's the subtle things that make a woman special in my eyes: Her natural femininity; the way she thinks; the way she feels; the way she moves; and in the special way that only she can love.

I am looking to have a wonderful relationship with a woman based on mutual trust, faithfulness, openness, wonderful communication, and physical closeness.

I love to write, I love to think about and to ponder the mysteries of life, and I love simple pleasures. In belief, I am a gnostic christian.

If you would like to know more about me, simply ask.