Kheyala, 67

I value honesty and vulnerability in a relationship and the capacity to see and be open about both the positive and negative parts of ourselves. I love walks in nature - the mountains, forests, rivers and lakes are my favourite places to be. I also love to dance - am like a fish in water on the dance floor although I am not very trained in any particular form of dance. I love the play between a man and a woman and value intimacy very much. I love to create environments that invoke real beauty. I have been told I am a very good cook - great at making raw desserts.

Its hard to pin down what makes me feel attracted to someone. Someone who can be honest about themselves including their shortcomings, has integrity and values personal growth and a deeper connection to a partner. He is confident and relaxed in himself and is capable of being open about his feelings. Not afraid of the truth about anything. Someone who is caring, relaxed and can have fun as well as talk on a deeper level. Someone with emotional intelligence and articulate. Of course there must be chemistry, and, as I have a spiritual s----l practice,I would want someone who can be feelingly open on that level.